Saturday, April 25, 2015

Thinking Soup: Another Reason Language Learning is Important

(Not for the weak of stomach)

The sun had just begun to set over distant hills.   Their rounded peaks were crested in light.  Bright orange filled the sky and darkness spread below.  Our car came, jittering over old cobblestone streets.  The tiny town, set outside a major city in Turkey never expected us to show up. 

We walked into the restaurant, intending to just have a light meal prior to returning home.  We received menus and my friend asked what I wanted.  “I’m thinking soup,” I replied. 

We both looked over the chorba options.  I quickly spotted my personal favorite: merjimek (lentil).  Upon ordering, the waiter replied, “yok,” meaning they actually didn’t have it.  He mentioned they had four options other than lentil soup.  I glanced back down at the menu and realized I didn’t understand any of them except for karishik, meaning “mixed”.  I concluded that it must be some sort of vegetable soup.  The waiter explained how it was the other three soups mixed together. 

“I’ll take it.”

Not knowing what I just ordered I decided to use the translator on my phone to look up the words.  I looked up, ishkembe or “intestines.”  I ate this in Central Asian buckwheat.  They boiled buckwheat with intestines and other delicacies overnight.  The first time I ate it I actually liked it.  I can handle this!

Secondly I looked up, kelle pacha or “head cheese.”  Head cheese refers to a jelly made with flesh from a cows head.  Okay I’ve had that before.  It tastes like a cow smells…I can’t say I liked it… but I can’t say I hated it.  I can get through that.” 

And lastly, I looked up the final ingredient: beyin.  Shining up at me from my phone’s screen was a word I wasn’t sure I could handle.  At that exact moment the soup bowl was set down right in from of me.  And I could see for myself what I was in for: Brain.

The description is almost exactly as you would imagine. 

After receiving the bowl I couldn’t restrain my laugher.  What a moment of life.  I was thinking soup for dinner but didn’t expect to actually get “thinking soup.” 

I ate it.

The side salad really complemented the brain taste. 

The next day I went to language class and relayed my experience to my language teacher.  She responded as though I’d just eaten chicken soup, “Oh yeah, brain soup!  It’s so healthy.  You should also try brain salad.  Very delicious.”

I think I’ll take her word for it. 



Sunday, March 22, 2015

An Intercontinental Date Night


“I’m going to Europe” never seemed so normal.  The phrase is a novelty for the world round and yet in this unique location, we hear it almost daily.  After five and a half months of talking about the “Europe side” and the “Asian side” of this city, it has become just another part of life’s experience.  (I know most of you know this already but Istanbul is split by the Bosporus Straight, thus dividing it into a European and Asian side) 

Date night is no exception.  It sounds silly to say you left your baby in Asia… but that is exactly what we did!  Most people don’t leave their baby in Asia while they travel to Europe for the evening.  It sounds romantic… and when it comes to our date night, it is romantic.    

Enjoy the pictures below!  This is one of the things we have enjoyed about living here, even if we don't always have the opportunity to do it regularly.  

This was our first real date in four months.
We were so excited we needed a picture to show ourselves off. 

After a long traffic-filled bus ride, we boarded a ferry.  

View of the European side


Joanna with an Ottoman palace in the background.

Turkish food is great!
Our meal consisted of rice, grilled meat, grilled peppers and tomatoes,
various pickles, wraps, sauces and Ayran (a yummy yogurt drink).


This mosque is one of the countless historical landmarks of the city.
In the background is one of the bridges that spans the Bosporus Straight.

A great way to end our evening (not to mention the long bus ride home!)








Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Christmas Trees in Istanbul - Reflections on Cultural Understanding

(Written December 2014) 

Two months in Istanbul is not long enough to really understand what Istanbul is.  In our shopping, adjusting and settling in, we are asking ourselves, “What is this place?”  Clearly this is a city of history and breadth.  Its architectural gems are ancient, contrasting the modern city sprawl.  Geographically it’s straddled over two continents: Europe and Asia.  Its food is a Mediterranean fusion.  This list of obvious observations could go on. 

These observations are realities of what this city is.  These are things that we can say with authority, “Yes, I know Istanbul is ancient with Byzantine and Ottoman relics.  Yes, the city is also modern as buildings and infrastructure are being built rapidly.   Yes, the Bosporus strait puts half the city in Europe and half in Asia.  And yes, the food is great.”  But when it comes to understanding a place culturally— when it comes to knowing Istanbul in its depth—the observed is not sufficient to communicate clearly what really is going on.    

Take a walk with me — Every week I get money from an ATM about ten minutes from where I live.  Let’s walk there now.  We walk quickly and are careful in crossing the street, for cars move faster and stop less for people than Americans are used to.  We walk along the uneven sidewalk and taste an aroma of smoke that soaks into our clothes.  Most women have their heads covered, a few with only eyes appearing.  Two tall minarets from a mosque are high in the sky, creating a backdrop for the disunities and incongruences in the tapestry of shops and stores that line the busy street (I speak as a Westerner).  Many men have prayer beads in hand, thumbing them as they leisurely walk.  The baklava and pideh (Turkish “pizza”) are novel and tantalizing.  The sound of cars honking is blended now with the call to prayer echoing through the streets.  As we approach our destination how do you feel?  Gleaning from our brief observations, what kind of world do you feel you have arrived to?

Or, we could go a different direction to a second ATM.  It is also nearly 10 minutes walking from where I live.  As we walk, people in western clothes are all around.  They have a similar appearance to what you normally see in America.  We pass Starbucks and Caribou, not to mention other coffee shops that are full of modern looking Turks.  To our right is a massive mall and before us IKEA stands strong.  Three newly constructed apartment buildings lift your eyes to the sky.  They are not unfamiliar to ones in Chicago, New York or LA.  As we walk into the large grocery store toward the ATM, you’ll notice the Christmas tree to the left, complete with Santa and his reindeer to the right.  And once we near the ATM, being the holiday season, Christmas music echoes through the isles.  Now how do you feel?  What kind of world have you arrived to?

This is Istanbul.  It is a land of contrasted truths.  It’s a city that sits paradoxically in appearance.  Yet we will be misled if we don’t realize that strict appearance is deceiving. 

There is much that can be said but I will only focus on one point.  When we walked together toward the more “modern” ATM I mentioned that we passed by a Christmas tree.  We passed a Christmas tree with Santa and reindeer.  Upon entering the store, we heard Christmas music as well.  Did these observations perk your curiosity or make you confused?  Maybe thoughts such as, “I didn’t know Turkey celebrates Christmas,” or “I thought most people in Turkey are Muslims,” or “I didn’t know Turkish people know who Santa is” came to your mind.  It is here that our personal understanding of what a decorated tree and Santa are becomes dissonant from what the truth is.  Our observations are loaded with so much of our own cultural background that when we see things that seem familiar, such as a decorated tree, we jump to assume it’s meaning without recognizing we could be in error. 

We did not pass by a Christmas tree.  Those do not exist here.  But there are New Years trees, which look exactly the same.  Even though the appearance is the same, the significance of this tree is entirely different.  What does this mean?  It means we, in calling a New Years tree a Christmas tree, have taken our own understanding of what a lighted and decorated tree is and applied it to the one here in Istanbul.  We have removed the real meaning and replaced it with a meaning that is familiar to us. 

You might also have observed that we passed by other things such as “Starbucks,” “Caribou,” “IKEA,”  “Mall,” “modern clothes,” and  “grocery store.”  Is it possible that we interpret these things the exact way we interpreted the New Years tree?  It’s so easy to take our own familiar experience of these things and then jump to the conclusion that these specific Turks really aren’t that much different than we are.  This is a fallacy of cultural interpretation.  Perceived familiarity is the kiss of death towards rightly understanding cultures. 

Conversely on our first trip to the bank’s ATM, as described above, we knew we were in a different place.  We knew we needed to take the time to get to the bottom of these observed expressions.  We knew the coverings, beads, food, smells, and noises were unfamiliar.  In difference we can be more attune to recognize the underlying contrasts in culture.  But when engaging familiar things, it is a temptation to conclude that there is no depth to what we see.  We quickly conclude, “All are like I am.” 


Our assumption that New Years trees in Istanbul are Christmas trees robs us the opportunity to truly understand.  It might seem trivial on this level but when applied to broader life experience and values, there is much more at stake.  Without right understanding it’s impossible to connect with the life and heart of a people.

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Learning Life in a New Place

We are still learning about this massive city.  This is the biggest, most diverse, complex place we've ever lived.  It will take time to get to the bottom of the layout of land, culture, language and life.  So for now, we hope you enjoy our little snippets of what we know (or at least what we think we know).

Enjoy some photos from our last three months:

We left from Dulles Int'l Airport in October.
We had a few bags, didn't we?

We stayed in a guest house for a month while
looking for more permanent housing.  Evie loves baths.

We have a lot of fun



After being gone to Central Asia in November,
Tim got back to his ladies.

Evie loves books, Asa Bear, and scooting all over the place.
She also loves to meet lots of local people.
She has more friends than we do! 

This is the ferry docking area on the Asian side.  We live about an
hour by bus into the Asian side.

Yummy treats

On the way by ferry to the European side.  We have taken the trip a few
times and will likely do it many many more.  The building in the
background is the Hagia Sofia. It's one of the most stunning
and intriguing (if not touristic) buildings in the entire city.

The Bridge across the Bosporus Strait.  It connects
Europe and Asia, East and West.  
Arriving to the European side.
These old mosques are fascinating.
Some architecture is 1500 years old.

The Galata Tower is from a time Italians from Genova
settled this part of what is today Istanbul
Closer to the Galata Tower

We love dried fruit and nuts.  Can't get enough!

On the way back to Asia by ferry.
The old town skyline is enriching.


These outdoor markets are great places to stumble through language
while also getting great prices on produce.
Typical views around town.

This is a Syrian restaurant.  Great durum (wrap filled with pieces of pictured roasted meat)!
There are many thousands of Syrians and other immigrant
communities in Istanbul.


Tuesday, February 18, 2014

It Fills the Air Around Us

Rice overflowing
Bread torn and laid all around
Tea fills cups and hearts
Home is nearer than we know
It fills the air around us

The poem (tanka) above highlights a scene from this past month.  We enjoyed a local meal from Central Asia right here in Kansas City.  Though it was prepared by a Westerner, it had the aroma of the mountains, rivers and hospitality of a land far away.  It carried in itself the image and feelings of something so familiar.  It was impressively tasty.  The meal was also enjoyed with a cup of tea.  Tea has been a major theme for us in Kansas City, just as it has been in Central Asia.  Friendships are home to us.  Whether in Kansas City or Central Asia, hot drinks are where friendships are built.

The rice dish is called "osh."